ups and downs of spongebetty

       I’m bored….. God help me… I so don’t know what to do right now. Smoking, blogging and it’s  01 bloody 45 am ! Arrrgghh…! How sad can it be ?! But I guess it gives me the chance to update my peeps about what has happen the past few weeks (trying to make myself feel better…)..

                       Well, went to JB and Singapore early this month..

                                 

                                      My baby and I in JB..

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                                              At Paragon.

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We even did some partying in JB………

                                 

                          

                                My baby, Addy & me !

              We went to this place called Lush at The Zone..

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                             We really had fun there….

                The ride back to KL was the saddest ever…

       

          And after that, on the 24th of December, Christmas eve….

                                 

                                          With me love…

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                                 And a few other friends…….

                                 

                                         Kai Ling & Nizam

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                                                 Ajim

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                                           Christine (in red)

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    Ahhh…..fun times, good company (especially my baby) and drinks….!

That’s all for now my dearest friends.. I hope that with this post, i have quenched your thirst for news, updates and gossips about me and my baby… YES ! We’re still on and we’re IN LOVE ! Muahahahaha….

                                   Cheerio….

Huggie..Huggie, Kissie..Kissie..

              After being on the low for so long, here I am again, stronger than before ! The last few months were not exactly a honeymoon, a holiday nor a break, but, it was more of a journey through hell, back to earth and to the gates of the 7th heaven…

               Let me begin with the hell part first. I broke up with the guy i was with for almost 3 years. At first, I thought I was strong enough to execute what was bound to happen but I thought wrong. I had a break down for about 2 weeks, ignored all of my friends and worst of all, I ignored my dearest Thini. Everybody was searching hi and low for me (which kinda made me feel real special when i heard it…hehe).

                  After the break down, I bounced back up, came to terms with reality (and reality sucks ! big time !). Came up with a new resolution :- Give no f**ks for no one !! Spent most of my time with my friends, on the phone and the best activity ever is sleep, but at the same time, another issue a risen where i was slowly losing my good friend, Bella, to a stranger who I tried my best to like for the sake of their relationship (oh..he’s her new boyfriend). But some men are just born brainless, heartless and manipulative. To see what the  guy does to her, deteriorates me inside…

                    In the midst of all the huss and the fuss, the Lord has sent me an angel from the 7th heaven in a form of a young guy who i met at his own birthday celebration but at that point of time, we were both too occupied with our own agendas that we didn’t give much attention to each other. A month after, a friend called me up for the usual weekend ritual, and so happened that this young angel was with him. We got to know each other a little better that night and he was a nice company to have around (I figured that out while i was still sober) and still is, then i got hammered. To my surprise, he was not like any other men where they would try to take advantage of you when you’re vulnerable but instead, he took care of me, he didn’t even try to pursue me that night and he sent me home ! He was a real gentleguy, despite the fact that he’s young, but the things he does, can put the older guys to shame..

                     After the second outing together, we hooked up and from then on, he has never seized to make me laugh, to care for me, to show affection and make me feel special. He treats me like a princess… The little things he does, will just melt your heart and make you glow. He doesn’t have to floss to get you all giddy inside…

                     Overwhelmed by all that has happened,  i took a step back to rewind and think back. I realized 1 thing, with every good, will come the bad. With every ups, will come the downs and vice versa. So, i figured, the young angel is the up to the downs and the good to the bads that I had (I do hope I figured it out right…). And I thank the Lord for blessing me with a charmer such as he…who goes by the name of ASHVIND…the angel…my angel…

                                              PRAISE THE LORD !!
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                                     I LOVE MY ANGEL !!
               

       I’m back ! Happier and more at peace… Life turns out to be really good to me now, but, to get here, I went through a lot, mostly nonsense ! Just like the saying ‘ u will have to kiss a whole bunch of frogs to get to the Prince, well, it is kinda similar to that…(i did go through nonsense with not just frogs but fugly toads too..! YUCK !). The tide is low now, everything is calm and all is good..

       Before this, I was always in need of friends, afraid that I might be alone if I don’t have this group of friends, that I might not be so called cool if I’m not in the circle, but like what my sayang has been telling all the while, " Those girls are not worth the effort. They think that the world revolves around them, so, don’t even try to be nice cause it will just be a waste of time..! " and that to not trust anybody easily… You see, i have this problem where if the person is nice to me, I’ll be extra nice and i will not think bad about the person, even if there were history of bad incidents or if I just got to know the person. And because of my weakness, I get stabbed in the back and taken for a ride..

       I know now that not everybody is as nice as I am… hehe (vain), Not everybody turns out to be who you think they would be, they are not always what they portray, they might be nice to you today and try to hurt you the next.. And when they do that, you’ll get cut deeply because it was not done by some stranger but people who you thought were your friends… Trust me, cause I went through it recently. And after it happened, that’s when i realize that i should have just listened to my sayang (he’s a real wise guy even though he made a mistake a few years back by getting himself allied with fugly toads…but again, he had to kiss all the frogs and at times, fugly toads to get to the princess..hehe).

        But overall, I still think that I’m lucky that I still have somebody waiting for me at home, where he does not think that he needs ‘outside help’ to make the relationship work and that he is certain and fully aware of what he is getting himself into.. Because there are couples out there that go through this problem, be it the guy or the girl, it happens. But i just don’t understand one thing, if you are in love with that one person, why do you hurt them ?? Or lets just get down to basics, if the other person didn’t hurt you in anyway and has been worshiping you, why would you want to hurt the innocent heart ? That is just pure cruel..

        Think about it, the longer you are with that someone, the more you know about them. The more you know about them, the more comfortable you are around them. Why throw away a perfectly good thing which is not even broken for thrills that will just get you no where ?  It’s like the saying ‘Better the devil you know than the angel you don’t..’, like i mentioned earlier, people are not always what they portray to be. Or, the fact that you get back what you give, today might be your day but you don’t know if tomorrow is…and when the time comes, you will not be so lucky as to come back to the person that you have hurt as they might have moved on.

        So, again I am thankful that i still have my sayang who loves me unconditionally. My best girlfriend, Thini, who has always been there through the good and the bad times and my baby girl, Amiesya, who has brighten our lives with her presence… May the days to come be as bright and sunny….

Kissie, Kissie….Huggie, Huggie

               

                                    

               

Hello again people..

This time around, I’m not gonna post any party pictures of me, my sayang, nor my friends. For this entry, it will truly be a ‘Tribute to THE single ladies nearing their ‘expiry date”(you know who you are).

With all do respect, I do feel for these old gals. But, I see a little bit of flaw every here and there. I’ve been doing some thinking, because of the AGE factor, the young ones should reserve some respect for the old gals, at least a little bit (despite their stupidity and their egotistical act). But, until when ? No doubt that they may have Degrees, Masters or PhDs but, it seems that the older they get, the dumber they are (in terms of their mind work that is..). They seem to think that just because they have lived longer, they know better. Supposedly that they’ve been through more than the young ones have, so whatever they do is ever so clever……… I think NOT !

Well, guess what… Doesn’t matter how old you are, if you act stupid, you will still look stupid…!

And yeah, i just don’t understand one thing. Even the young ones know not to cling to the past, but you should know better since you’ve been through sooo much…!

The biological clock is ticking, time is running out (at least for you old gals). Why not try to find somebody who is actually into you and try to make him settle down rather than keeping yourselves busy interfering with other people’s personal life or boyfriends (even though he was with you gazillion years ago). The young ones understand that it must be lonely to be you, that’s why you do all these idiotic gestures but try the suggested options, it may change your life….

Before I go, i would like to say that I really do feel for all of you, not enough to drive me mad…, but enough to keep my mouth shut all these while. So…..no hard feelings ? he he

Kissie, Kissie….Huggie,Huggie

                        

Hey, hey, hey…… I went back to Penang again last week, it was HAPPENING !!! Started partying the moment i set foot in Penang till the day i went back….what a trip ! But before that, to officiate the trip……a bowl of CENDOL !   

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                          YUMMY  !!!

After the cendol, the 2 love birds took me for a special ’siput’ treat…  I sort of forgot to take the picture of the dish before it was attacked, but, i do have pictures of it after the attackers were done attacking….hehe   

                   (just the shells)

And not to forget the main predator…..    ….hahaha (oh, by the way, that’s my brother) see how messy he is…hehe (don’t put your hopes up high…you ain’t gonna see me in that kind of mess !)

Next destination…..MOMO 

This was our table    and this was what he managed to extort from me ….(oh, if u can’t really see, it’s a bottle) arrgghhhh !!!!

This is him and his girlfriend…….  (he just couldn’t stop talking about her !)

And here is the lamp pose…. , who was dragged to the club in the same clothes she was wearing the whole day ! Pity her….

As we were working on the booze…..

          

  There’s a story behind this picture, u see the flowers ? Well, It started out with my brother, he bought his girlfriend a rose, and then, there came a Chinese dude (more like a Chinese uncle) and asked me why didn’t i get a rose too, instead of answering him, i just smiled and looked away. After about ten minutes, he came to me again with the rose in his hand ……hahhah….. then again, the person who gave it wasn’t interesting… What a disappointment..

As we continued drinking…… 

Awwww…… Isn’t that cute…..

                              

                                     It’s me !!!!

Me and Norish (my bro’s girlfriend)

                               

                 Oooppppssss…… I don’t know who that is !!!!!

Morning comes……..

The next day….., my brother had a bad hang over….eehehehe….Oh! did i tell u that he got drunk the night before and knocked out ! heehehee…..

We went out to Gurney Plaza in the afternoon and had lunch there and did a little bit of shopping…..

    While waiting for the food…..

                             

                          And not to forget the love birds…

As the night comes…..

As usual, I got calls from my friends and then decided to go out… So, off I went to SS.. Where i met up with….

                                        

                                   Harveen and Dassraj

                                       

                                      Me and Harveen

                                (she is such a sweet girl)

                                       

                                       Me and MoMo

                                       

                                Me and Harveen…again…

                                       

                                      Gerard and Ash

                                       

                                      No comments !!

                                     

                                    The party people

And as we jump to the next night……

There was a Hitz.FM party in SS that night, so all of the suspects were there… I called Thini to tell her that i was going for the party and  she said that her Iggy was going too and to go look for him there, I did but couldn’t find him….. Sorry Thini….

                                     

                             All done up and sober…hehe

                                     

                                     Me and Ravena

                                     

                                 With Ravena and Ash

                                     

                                     Ash and Ravena

                                       

                                      Me and Ravena

                                       

                                       Me and Mohan

                                       

                                         Me and Ash

                                       

                                       

          Yes…. My brother and his girlfriend were there too..

                 The night ends a few drinks and shots after….

Had lots of fun… Thanks to all the party people and the hitz.fm ford cruiser crew for spicing up the joint……..

                                       ….The End…. 

                                     

Kissie, Kissie….Huggie,Huggie….

Thini was  in KL again…. yeay…. happy happy..

I made her follow me to the local award ceremony…hehe

                                 

     The one in the middle is my sister, the mc for the award.. we were waiting by the stage during rehearsal..

After that, all of us ran off to get ready for the real thing.. It starts at 9 pm and i managed to get ready at 8.30 pm…hehe

    

                                  

                                   All dressed up !

And Thini came down 15 mins after me, looking like this….

                                 

                                     Gorgeous!!

                  

Then we proceeded to the stage, where Abg Bob, the co-compare was waiting…

                                 

                           Kak Ya and Abg. Bob Brown

As the show went on… we did what we do best…. POSE !!!!

And we took these in between breaks…with the macho Abg. Bob..hehe……..

                           

                 As Thini and I say, The Beautiful Mermaid…

                                    

I had a picture taken with Kak Gee….    

And so did Thini….. 

And also with Abg M. Nasir……..hehe…. 

And so the night ends…….. 

NOT !!!!

We then headed on to Passion to meet up with Thini’s friend, Vijay… such a nice person… he actually bought a bottle of whiskey just because i can’t tolerate vodka !!! Believe it ! Thanks Vijay….

                              

                  And by the way, this is Vijay….

I hated Passion cause there were too many c@%#$$@, but Thini kept on reminding me to just think about the booze…. hehe… well, it helped…

After a few glasses….

         

       

   See the guy behind us ? well, he probably got excited from our kissing scene that he grope our a*$ at the same time ! So, in the speed faster than the speed of light, we both planted 2 tight slaps simultaneously, 1 on the right and the other on the left…. And then Vijay came and gave some more 2 cents word to the ugly b@$%$*#… Sorted !

After that, we left Passion at 3 am heading to Bar Savahn for some more action and ended up getting caught in the jam right at the turning to the club ! Since we were stuck in the car for half an hour, i needed to go to the little ladies room so we parked right in front of Savahn and went in to just piss…hehehe…

But while we were stuck…..

              yeah baby…..   

         Thini, as usual….

  and     hehehe…. call us vein, call us whatever, but we love the camera and the camera loves us…. Muah… 

Left Savahn right after the visit and continued the nonsense at home…..

                                       

                                           What a pair !!

And after all these…….. ZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzz….

Kissie, Kissie….Huggie, Huggie

             

Thini came down to KL on Good Friday, 2 weeks back and we really had a GOOD Friday night… We went to Bar Savahn (my favourite club ever) and partied ’till my dearest Thini got drunk…hehe

this is how we started out :    

then this : 

and followed by this, this, and this :

And of course, there will be these :

 

Oh…. checkk out Thini’s eyes, she’s so…..getting there ..

We left after Thini started falling asleep with her head on my lap….hehe… But it was a fun….fun….night..

Oh yeah, we also had the company of Buj….

Well, ’till then……. Kissie, Kissie….Huggie, Huggie

Hi again y’all.. Well, for starters, I’m back from Penang and I came back with a GASTRIC among other sickness.. I’m so sad

But i did enjoy myself while i was in Penang, I went shopping with mom, went to the movies with darling friends, went for ice cream with my brother and his ‘Lady Friend’(he he he…just like the old, school days), quarreled with Sayang over the phone, and lastly, bought ikan kering for Sayang and Ona…

Oh…. Did i mention that i bought new tops for Chinese New Year ? Well…. I did ! I did ! Pretty tops and a pretty, sexy, cute, red pair of shoes…..hehehe. So basically, i went red this Chinese New Year but too bad that when i was leaving the house to go to the airport, i forgot to take the camera with me as it was well hidden by my sayang…hmmm…. naughty, naughty boy…(don’t worry, he has been punished…hehe). So, no pictures from Penang or the Chinese New Year.. I know…. I know….sad, huh…

Back to the story of my illness, well, after i came back to KL ( after suffering from upper abdominal pain for 24 hrs), Sayang took me to the hospital, i was diagnosed with gastric. So, i was given yucky medicine to be completed and an even yuckier milk solution for me to drink if i get the pain again, urgh…horrible ! It took me 3 days to recover but i still have the side affects from the gastric attack (which was really bad) where i still have difficulties in breathing, until now, i hyper ventilate… Do you know how tiring that is ?! Try to breath faster and maintain the rhythm for just 30 mins. You’ll pass out !!

Enough for now, i guess… Will try to come out with some more updates a.s.a.p… take care nosy people…..

Kissie…kissie, Huggie…huggie

p/s : sorry… no pictures…

Olla…

Firstly, a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY wish to my dear friend and sis - Lynn…. it was a blast and i have pictures to prove it…(but i didn’t get drunk though…) anyways, the pictures :-

In this picture, as u can see, I’m on the far left, next to me is the birthday girl - Lynn, Intan and Nana.. The Hot Chicks… I know… I know… Damn Perasan…

Nana & Me…… Hot Mamas….he he eh perasan again…

 

Intan & Me…..

(she’s super fair, isn’t she…)

The birthday girl & Me…..

(the birthday girl was mighty tipsy at the time of the shot..he he he)

It’s ME !…..do i look like i lost weight ?

please do tell me…(and make sure that the comments are nice !)

  Which is a better picture ?

My gift to the birthday girl…a Flaming…..

Yippee……..

And guess what…..

  I had one too…….he he he

The three main attraction of the night….

 

With Mr. Star Of The Night DJ……

And lastly, the one and only, little miss posie, ME !

So, i guess that’s all for now and thank you for viewing and keeping track of my movements…. all you nosy people !

I might be going back to Penang for chinese new year, so, wait for the updates when i get back……

Kissie, Kissie……….Huggie, Huggie

Hello…. Since i have promised to post the pictures that i took in Penang, well, here they are…

At Chill Out in Gurney….. As the night gets hotter…..

   

What can i say…. all of us, we just love to pose…. and the camera loves us…

And these pics are of my baby. We were at Gurney Plaza :

                     

And she loves the camera too…. Just like her aunty and mama….

And lastly, her birthday… It was an old fasion birthday, as per her grandma’s request. So, we hed a few kids from the neighbourhood to come and celebrate…

    

  But as you all know, as long as there is a cake, presents and firends, they’re find…

I love my baby….